Monday, November 28, 2011

5 simple ways to gain self confidence!!!


 Having self confidence is the key to success and a much happier life! If you follow my 5 simple rules you will be on your way towards becomming a new and improved individual!!! :)

1. Dress Sharp: Whether you are on your way to school, work, a party, or even your grandma's house you must make sure that you are always dressed approprietly. Clothes certainly affect the way a person feels about themselves and expresses their individuality. When you are not dressed approprietly it influences the way you carry yourself and interact with others. Make sure to be aware of the upcomming fashions and have fun with your creative style :)

2. Have Good Posture: Make sure and have good posture because people with slumped shoulders or hunch backs seem to lack self confidence. These people usually aren't outgoing, but when they start using good posture they  automatically feel more confident with themselves. If you stand up staight, hold your head high, and make eye contact you will have a postive impact on the others around you.

3. Speak up: It doesn't hurt to ask!!! If you are ever in a meeting or a group discussion and have a question feel free to ask!!! Many people never speak up because they are afraid to say something stupid however, someone else in the audience may have the same question as you. If you speak up at least once in every group discussion that will definately boost your self confidence and even make you seem like a leader! :)

4. Work out: No excuses!!! I don't care how busy you are you could at least devote a little time each day to workout not only for your self confidence but for your health as well. It will make you feel better about yourself and build up your motivation. If you are out of shape you may feel insecure, unattractive, or even less energetic. Everybody knows when you work out you feel 110% BETTER about your appearance which stimulates your self confidence! GO YOU!!!

5. Focus on your Goals!: Make sure to focus on your goals because it will benefit you in the long run and set you up for an outstanding future. Short term and long term goals are great to have because they will help keep you focused on what needs to be done and what is important in your life. This will also help you with your confidence because it will prove how successful you really are when all of your goals are accomplished.

I hope you ALL take my advice!!! XO <3

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